Im going through puberty?

I have alot of hair down there and I'm growing breasts.I shave my armpits and my legs without anybody knowing.I'm starting to get dark hairs on my belly.Im getting discharge.I hate my life.I don't get much pimples but I have hair mostly everywhere. It's like I'm living an adult life behinde my family and they think I'm still a kid. My mom knows that we have sex-ed in school but she never EVER talked to me about that stuff. I want her to bring up the conversation and I don't want it to feel acward. My friend and her mom got pads for her just in case she gets her period. How come my mom hasn't done that. My older sister got her period when she was 11 so my mom should talk to me. What should I do. My life is all messed up! Non of my friends shave and there still like kids.Im also the biggest in ,y class(I think) Im 110 pounds and Im 4 foot 11.I know Im not fat but......

HELP!

Im going through puberty?

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Im going through puberty?

calm down. i felt the same. its not as scary as it seems. maybe tell ur mum ur worried. and if u get ur period, shes prob got some stored somewhere for u. my mum gave me hers! i felt very alone then, confide in ur friends if not family. x

Im going through puberty?

first of all, talk to your mum about it, or at least talk to someone about it.....

don't worry about shavin before ur mates, some people develop quicker than others

don't panic everyone feels the same

Im going through puberty?

Yes, that would be puberty. I know how it feels and I hate my life right now also. But just try to do something to take your mind off of it. There is nothing you can do so just stop worrying. Your mum probably has probably got stuff ready for your period anyways so just relax. Dont be in a rush for it aswell, you will change your mind when you have it lol. Just tell your parents you want to be treated like a mature adult/young adult not a little kid. I started puberty when I was 10 and I am 14 now and still going through it. But just dont worry about it, the more you worry the worse it is.

Hope this helps a bit!

Im going through puberty?

talk to your mom, i was like that too, but i brought it up with my mom and she was happy i did, she knows i feel comfortable around her. Just say, mom im going through puberty right now, and i want to tell you im not a kid anymore. If she doesnt want to talk about it, just say, mom, you went through this too, so can you please help me? talk to her about shaving too, i used to shave behind my moms back and once i asked her if she could buy me a shaver she said, sure. After that it got a lot more comfortable to talk to her about those things, and im so happy. I want to talk to my mom about those kind of things now, and me and her are comfortable with it. Youll be happy. go ahead, tell her.