Should I consider having another baby?

My husband just turned 40. I am in my mid twenties. We have a 20 month old. We also have two 6 yr old boys from prior marriages. I want to try for a girl. I want to experience a girl. I want to do her hair, shop with her, and even one day be there for her when she is married and has her own family. Boys are great, but I feel a little void when I see a little girl. We are financially stable, but my hubby says he doesn't want to have more kids at 40. He also says that with less kids, we can give them more attention and more things like private school, and just extra stuff. I agree, but I would like to try for a girl. Should I just forget about it? Thankyou for your answers in advance!!!

Should I consider having another baby?

I say adopt. What if you "try" for a girl and have another boy?

Should I consider having another baby?

Sounds lovely - I have a little girl and she is just divine. remind your husband that 40 isn't that old any more. Having kds will keep him young, yada yada. My 36 yo hubby is keen for us to have another baby and I keep putting him off!

But don't forget, you still have a 50% chance of having another boy! How long are you willing to keep trying?

Should I consider having another baby?

No guarantees the next one will be a girl and if not, would you be disappointed?

If you get pregnant despite your husbands feelings, you could be putting your marriage in jeopardy.

I think you should be grateful for what you have and don't push the envelope.

Should I consider having another baby?

how about fostering a little girl.. that way he can see what it is like having a daughter.. and sometimes you can adopt those children.. who knows he may fall inlove her

Should I consider having another baby?

How about adoption? There are plenty of beautiful children wanting someone to love them.

You may end up with another son and it will start driving a wedge between you and your husband since he's quite adamant that he doesn't want another child.

Should I consider having another baby?

Consider adoption? I know there are so many children out there who would love to have you for a mother

Should I consider having another baby?

i say yes .i see ur husbands point but i know how you feel. i have 2 boys and one girl and me and her have such fun together. i would tell ur hubby how much this means to you and why you never know he may say lets go for it. i wish you the best.

Should I consider having another baby?

don't get a girl tooo much children is a lot of work !Just be happy for your kids so ya ttyl

Should I consider having another baby?

Sure. Go for it. If you get another boy what the heck - once you've got two or three what's another one?

Besides, your husband's fighting a losing battle on this one. He knew what he was getting into when he married someone that much younger than himself.

Don't get me wrong - I'm not judging, just jealous.

Should I consider having another baby?

I can understand you wanting a little girl, but here's the thing that you really need to consider...even if you do get pregnant, there's no guarantee that it's going to be a girl.

It might turn out being another boy.

Then what, will you regret having that baby or will you just need to keep having more until you get a girl?

Should I consider having another baby?

well since your husband says he doesn't want more kids, you shouldn't consider having another baby.......besides, there are no guarantees you'd have a girl anyway, you gonna have 12 boys trying to have a girl.....be happy with the blessings that have been bestowed upon you......

Should I consider having another baby?

You can try but there's no guarantee that you will have a girl. Have you tried being a foster mom or maybe a host family to a foreign exchange student? Adoption?

Should I consider having another baby?

If he doesn't want another one I don't think you should do it. Both of you should be in agreement before bringing a life into the world.

Should I consider having another baby?

Your husband said he doesn't want anymore, you better listen. I had told the Lord that I didn't want anymore kids after the age of 30 and the Lord sent me a baby girl at 30, I already had a boy. Your husband is at the age where the kids should almost be grown, he is old enough to be a grandfather, he may be in good shape but he has the family that he wants already and there is no guarantee that you will have a girl. I can't wait until my kids grow up so me and my husband can be alone.

Should I consider having another baby?

if a woman wants another child and the man loves her he should grant her wish for another child.

its normal for you to try for a girl, but you have to also consider the possibility of another son if you get pregnant again.WIll you be very dissapointed? feel guilty? will you still want to try again and again for a girl? sometimes we only get a limited number of children and genders. some people have only girls and accept they dont have a son. thats also apart of being a mum, to accept what we "Dont have".

There are NO guarantees in life we just have to accept how our life turns out from each roll of the dice.

I really hope you can have anothe child for the love of them but also accept that a girl baby cannot fullifill you inside.

Should I consider having another baby?

I would forget about it. You might not even have a girl, and if you did she could be a tom boy and not want to do all those girl things you mentioned. She might not get married. She might be gay. You have her whole life planned on what you want not what your child might want.

Should I consider having another baby?

Yes, Yes! Absolutely go for it!!! I love children because they are so damm cute and adorable. I have [3] Super beautiful, super adorabe, super cute and lovely kiddos. 1 baby girl and 2 baby boys. If I was financially stable, I wouldn't mind having 15 kiddos with my wife, but unfortunately we not financilly stable.