Why do I attract Lesbians?

I do not know why I attract women all the time. I am married (to a man) and have three kids. The only thing I can think of is that I have short hair. I hope this doesn't offend anyone I was just wondering. I do have gay friends, am I picking up some of their ways of doing things, and that is a suggestion that I am? I don't know what to do to change this. I go out with friends and every time I get hit on by women even if I am not putting out any signals at all.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

Being the mother of three must mean that you have a high level of competence and confidence! Talk about a hard job :) It is my experience (as a lesbian) that we are not that different from straight women. We are attracted to competency, confidence, honesty, respect....sounds like you have all of those qualities. Also sounds like you're not very judgemental....and that's a hard combo to resist! It's more in the way you carry yourself than any "signals" that you put out there. Don't worry about it. Just consider yourself hot enough to attract both sexes! LOL. Be firm but kind when you let these women know that you aren't a lesbian, and let it give you an ego boost.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

Because deep down inside you are one of them

Why do I attract Lesbians?

no wonder your avatar looks like a boy

Why do I attract Lesbians?

I don't know..I'm a gay man..I get hit on by women all the time..I just take it as a compliment...as I think you should.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

When I say this I don't mean to offend you but reading your question almost gives me the impression you might be asking yourself if you are Bi or Lesbian, am I wrong? If I am then I would just be happy all types of people feel they can be open with you because there are so many closed people in this world that people feel lucky to open to you.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

you are sending signals possibly by your body language. U are more conscious about ur self in public and like a half open door. people try peeping in. Just shut the door if u feel like.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

Been happening to me my whole life. It's not the short hair. The funny thing is that my sister is gay and she complains I get hit on more than her. Her theory is that I'm so comfortable with her and her friends that I'm more open than many straight women might be under similar circumstances. It's not a bad thing, or anything to worry about. It's a compliment, roll with it and relax. All you have to do is simply say thanks so much for the compliment but i'm straight.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

Well I am thinking with a husband and three kids where to you find the time to go out with friends.

If it bothers you to be hit on by lesbians then STOP going to lesbian places with your friends. You pick up habits like them, that is from going out with them more than you should.

You must have lots of lesbian friends as I have male gay friends and I don't seem to pick up on their habits. But in any case I think you like the attention, you like being hit on and you tease the other women that hit on you. You are just a want-a-be lesbian. If you didn't have a family it would be ok.

If you are not, then you would stay home and take care of your family. ......

Hey I have a revolutionary idea... why not one night take your family out to somewhere, other than a gay bar and do something with them.

Maybe spend the same amount of time with your family as you do with your lesbian friends, and maybe then you will pick up some of your family habits. I know that is really off the wall, but hey you are not wanting to be lesbian so what is there to lose.

I bet if you take your family to somewhere that is a family place you will not get hit on by other women. You just might get hit on by your husband...!!!!!! God for bid!!!!!... or even worse.... your kids just might say something like.. "Gee mom, we love spending time with you" more.... " thanks for being our mom and spending your valueable time with us".

Radical idea... no I just lost my head.. sorry.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

you don't have to put out "signals" maybe your just an attractive woman. If you are beautiful and nice and comfortable to be around other people catch on to that. take it as a compliment. heck i'm gay and don't get hit on.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

There usually is not that much smoke without some fire

Why do I attract Lesbians?

You kinda have to get used to it, ignore the people who say that its cause your really a lesbian cause if your not, your not.

I get hit on by a lot of lesbians too (since I was 13), but it never really bothered me. People have to learn that not every girl with short hair is a lesbian. Just take it as a compliment, people think you're sexy and that's all that matters. If your putting out signals it might be how u walk or stand, it might look more masculine.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

My best friend attracts a lot of lesbians, she always has and she actually has long hair. No matter where she goes women would hit on her. She is very flattered by it, and I can't blame the lesbians for wanting to hit on her.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

Just be glad you get hit on.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

Probably because you are attractive. You should be flattered and not worry about it.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

just take it as a compliment. if it bothers you, you can just actually say to them that you're straight, married and not interested in dating women. i myself attract women, but well, not all the time. i'm straight but i'm kinda enjoying the attention. =)

Why do I attract Lesbians?

they prob just think your hot.

why do i attract straight men, if im lesbian.

cuz they think im hot.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

my lesbian friend said that it's the body language and mannerism that gives it away. Sometimes it's the way you dress, rarely would it be your hair cut coz lots of executive/business women have short hair.

The thing is some lesbians do not care whether you have a wedding ring or not, they know many married women are bisexuals.

It's flattering that both sexual orientations find you attractive, take it as a compliment :) I wish i am like you coz it seems like only girls want me.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

you must be giving off something .not all lesbians are attracted to short haired lesbians .i know im not i prefer blondes like natasha bedingfield myself

Why do I attract Lesbians?

Take it as a compliment. If you are at a place where there will be lesbians, than it's a given. If you're not, than it just might be something about you that makes you attractive to them.

Why do I attract Lesbians?

Your avatar's hairstyle makes dykedar go crazy. (Dykedar is like gaydar, but for lesbians).

Why do I attract Lesbians?

Hey...lady...be happy...there is hard to get attention from the same gender...unless u are really attractive...and appealing...So be happy don't worry...I get that from guys too...

Why do I attract Lesbians?

were the exact opposite: i have to tell people that i am gay all the time, i mostly get hit on by men... even though i love women.

i would take it as a complement, maybe you are just a beautiful looking woman.