How do you give constructive hints to someone when you see they are not taking care of their childrens needs? My husbands aunt and uncle let their kids do anything, they don't make them eat healthy foods, and they do wash or brush the little girls hair like they should. The mother eats like a pig, but she keeps herself well groomed (I don't think the mother has much sence), and the father is fed up with the mother, but he lets the kids do the same things as the mother. (She doesn't work and she always says there is something wrong with her physically) The kids eat candy and chips for meals, chocolate milkshakes only a while after a meal is eaten, and I can't understand this.......... If the kid wants a snack less than an hour after eating, that means it is not getting full from the meal, right, so why not make it eat a full meal........... By the way the little girl weighs probably close to 100 pounds if not more and she's only 8!
Please Help ME!!!!!!!!!
How do you give constructive.....?
talk to them, try giving her a book of healthy kids recipes for christmas, hopefully she will get the hint
How do you give constructive.....?
There are only two ways to handle this, direct confrontation or nothing. You can either sit down with your Aunt in law and have a direct and frank discussion regarding her parenting or you can leave it be.
I would say direct confrontation is the way to go, if her kids are really that unhealthy that borders on child endagerment. These kids are lining up for a pretty bad adulthood.
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