Friday, July 24, 2009

Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

Okay, I've been noticing alot of women post questions on here about men who play video games too much, or whatever stupid childish addiction they have, and most people say "If he isn't doing anything worse, let him do it." or "Try talking to him in a non-threatening way". Why do we have no right to just get out-right ANGRY when guys do this s*** to us? Why should we have to settle for "At least he DOESN'T (fill in the blank)"? He may not be drinking or cavorting with women, but the things he IS doing are equally damaging to the relationship. Why should we women walk on eggshells and not say anything to him that might upset HIM? We spend so much time on doing our hair, makeup, working 40 hours a week, cleaning, cookin, taking care of kids, etc., and yet we're made to feel as if we shouldn't ask anything in return to make US happy. It's as if we live in the Victorian era, where we have to tend to their happiness and keep our mouths shut about our own suffering. Why is this so?



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

Modern day relationships have really sliped past how a true and loving relationship should be. First off the guy should be helping with some of the house work, and when they don't, as the "head" of the family, the women should be able to talk to them about there feelings and what the male could do to help. It has gotten this way over a period of time, where males have now started thinking it's weak or that you are "whipped" for helping out or doing as the female in the house wants. There is nothing wrong with this at all. In fact to me it takes a real man to help out and still keep his pride. I always ask my wife if there is anymore that I can help her out with. When working together you draw closer AND it all gets done faster- leaving you more time to spend together and relax. Just because a man helps the woman out or listens to her does not make him weak.



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

The problem is supply and demand. Right now America is a taco fest and becoming moreso. You women need to have more boys so in the future you have more men to choose from then you can choose better men. But if there are more women to men then some women will be left without and so they have to choose bad men over no men.



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

because women rather have someone then be alone, something is better than nothing.



same goes for men.



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

Basically, sexism. A lot of people think that women should be subservient to men and should do whatever it takes to make their man happy, despite the cost to them.



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

I COMPLETLEY agree with you. We have our own minds and those of us who are strong and know how to use our own minds dont just "settle" for things, we get the best, and what makes US happy!!!



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

They dont know when thier happy . women cant tell waht they feel aor wahnt



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

If a woman is in a relationship that is making her unhappy it is because she doesnt just get up and leave...Life is too short to be unhappy and I say if the relationship is making you unhappy get out of it. Women dont have to settle for this, move on and find someone better. I prefer being single than having to be second to a ball game or video game. So, all these women in here asking these questions it is because they allow themselves to be treated like that..



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

because like me there have low self-esteam and think that they cnt get anyone else better so u might as well stick with wot u have got than be alone as NO ONE wants thats



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

That's your opinion. Not everyone has to like the guys YOU think are intelligent. Every Girl will always find something to complain about I guess, and you are just lame.



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

I can't even begin to imagine being that desperate. But some girls with extremely low self esteem seem to think they have to.



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

They don't have to. They choose to. They have low self esteems and feel they do not deserve any better. And even worse, they do not realize that women truly rule the world. A good man would give them the world if they were a good honest woman. It is very sad. It is all about choices, they choose these men. They are not forced to be in these relationships, they CHOOSE the. Have a blessed Christmas and a joyous New Year! God bless****



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

it depends how you want to live if keeping your mouth shut makes you happy then do it, if not open it up and let it out. you have to do what makes you happy. my other half loves his cmputer games so i put a good film on in the bedroom snuggle up with my box of chocs and chill out by myself. i dont need him to keep me happy .



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

Look dear where there is expectation there is pain.Keep doing your job. sometimes we have to live our own lives, ie I, ME, AND MYSELF. Stop grudging and enjoy your life to the fullest for you live only once....



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

you are way off. First off you and only you are to blame for what reaction you have to the way someone treats you. They may give you the cause but you ultimately decide the way you allow it to affect you.



Why do women have to settle for men who don't make them happy?

Because society has taught these women to settle by any means necessary. They have been programmed to think that singlehood past the age of 40 is the worst affliction for a woman possible. They never learned how to be truly independent and self-reliant.

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